Thursday, March 1, 2018

Friends are the Family You Choose

Disclaimer: I am the self-proclaimed softest girl alive so prepare yourself for an overly sentimental lexical experience.

Our WAIP orientation was full of nuggets of wisdom regarding ways to survive and thrive in Washington. Amid the logistic advice about navigating the Metro, and saving money as an unpaid intern, I was particularly interested in the idea of the 18 strangers sitting around me becoming some of my best friends. Like most of us in the program, I have plenty of amazing friends at Ohio State, and quite frankly wasn’t feeling particularly urgent to find new best friends. I was interested in my fellow cohort members and looked forward to getting to know them, but had no idea they would be the most thoughtful, interesting, generous, kind, motivated individuals I have ever met. In eight short weeks, they have become some of the truest friends I have ever made and I continue to learn new things about them while making new memories every day. In a very special way, they have become a little family unit to me and have supported me, annoyed me, made me laugh, made me think, impressed me, and loved me as any family would. This program is incredibly demanding, but is more than possible with good friends by your side. Every day is an adventure in this program, but I’ve highlighted just a few the many moments that you will be thankful for this new little family below.

WAIP Ladies Day! One of the most iconic outings of the semester
Me blissfully enjoying Times Square with two people I met 7 weeks prior to the photo being taken

 
Four Times in which your new family comes in handy:

1)         When you forget your required second form of ID on your first day of work, prohibiting you from receiving a staff badge
a.          Just as your real family always does, your WAIP family will bail you out. After just 5 days of living with them, they will meet you halfway down Constitution Ave with your passport which they retrieved from your underwear drawer so you are neither late nor unprepared on your first day.
2)         Your first absolutely atrocious, good-for-nothing, horrendous day of work
a.          Maybe you got screamed at by constituents on the Hill all day, maybe you sifted through hundreds of case files for 8 hours with the paper cuts to show for it, maybe a bus full of 8th graders told you to your face they’ll never come back to the National Archives then a veteran asks you if you have any idea how badly you’ve stirred their war demons by asking them to speak on a panel. Who’s waiting in the living room the moment you walk in the door? Your WAIP family. Ready and waiting to hear all about it! And suddenly you’re laughing about the whole thing and aren’t totally, completely dreading going in tomorrow.  
3)         The 60th Annual Grammy Awards are on
a.          Maybe this is just me, but no award show watch party is truly complete without a healthy dose of familiar bickering and yelling. Your WAIP family is there to yell at you when you’re talking but their favorite artist is on screen, or when you muted the TV during commercials and are one tenth of a second late in turning the sound back on. They’re also right there ready to fight about who they think should have won, how incompetent you are regarding Grammy fashion, or who owes who for the 5 pizzas you have devoured. Feels like home!
4)         Your first WAIP Cry
a.          It will happen. It hits some sooner than others, but I can nearly guarantee right around the five week mark when you’re no longer running on pure adrenaline, but you still stay up late getting to know your roommates, you have eaten the same breakfast, lunch, and dinner for thirty-five consecutive days, your friends back at home at OSU got out of bed at noon just to show up to class in pajamas then end their evening at a concert, your work shoes feel too uncomfortable, your purse feels too heavy…and you just lose it. They’ll be there to pat you on the back, talk you through it, and snap you out of it. There’s no crying in baseball and there’s no crying in WAIP! No time to waste being anything but happy here!



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