Friday, February 26, 2016

Don't be that Guy

The revolving door of interns continually ushers in same two types of young professionals: the forgettable and the memorable. With so many interns beginning and ending simultaneously throughout a semester, it can be hard to stand out amongst your peers. Instead of wasting both mine and your time by throwing together some mind numbing guide about how to be a “great intern”, I’m going to discuss how I have managed intern to intern relationships.

Cramming people in any size room is a recipe for disaster, packing upwards of six ambitious know-it-alls, and I mean know-it-all, in a room that comfortably fits three and is confidently called the “mail room” is a guarantee that conflict will arise. Bumping into one another with ever subtle movement, the six of us have gotten to know each other rather quickly. There is little to no time to feel things out to see who you get along with, and who you don’t. Because of this, it is important to “not be that intern” and manage your relationships well.

Since I have been there, one intern was hired by another Senator, another will be hired any day now, and the others all go to Georgetown, so it's clear these people are going places. There are some I absolutely can’t stand and others I see myself being friends with for some time. With so many conflicting personalities, it can be tough to be the new kid. What I’ve learned having been the new kid is just simply, “don’t be that kid”. The kid who tries to fit in too soon, the kid who is too anxious to do something other then voicemails, the kid who just pisses everyone off. In closing, follow the lead of the interns who have been there the longest, lay low the first weeks and don’t complain about doing the dumb task because frankly they’ve done their time now you have to. That’s about it for me, so remember to don’t be that kid and you’ll have a good semester.

-James 

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